Nudism

If people want to be in the nude let them be - However there is a time and a place. The last thing I want to see on the beach on a nice sunny day with my family is a nudist!!!! Bit embarrassing isn't it? I am all for love your body, natural etc. Doesn't mean I want to be exposed to it!

It is good that people feel comfortable with their body and they want to share with people. We are all the same but certain things like our bodies and personalities make us unique. It makes us who we are and we should appreciate that.

There are certain resorts , beaches, and certain places which are equipped of nudist. I think its good that people have the confidence to show their bodies of in the nudes. Realistically how many people are actually happy about their bodies. I know that I would never do it I simply don't have the guts..

There are such places as Nudist beaches for that. People need to be appropriately dressed because it makes other people feel unconformable.

This website linked has more information on this topic. http://http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Naturism

Liar Liar your pants are on fire!

Is it wrong to tell a lie?

When we are children we are not told to lie as it's bad but why is it that adults them selves are the ones lying. Growing up we listen to stories such as the boy who cried wolf and watched movies like Pinocchio. But why isit that we still carry on to lie.

I would say that most people at least once in their life has told a lie. Most people lie to change circumstances to suit them selves. For example to manipulate others, or to win over others. Lying is used for devious means as the intent for lying could be bad.

However I do believe there is such a thing as a good lie as it may have good intentions behind it. For example lying to protect someone you care about.

I do think lying can be quite addictive too because when no harm is done with telling one lie what harm would come from telling 100 lies. However if the truth is told then that's when trouble occurs.

Most religions will teach to live a an honest life. Being Sikh myself I know that it is in our religion that we live and earn a truthful and honest living. However in my personal opinion I think sometimes a white lie is in need of from time to time. But on the other hand what is the point of lying becasue is it not our selves we are lying too?

This link I have posted is a sikh story which is about truth and honesty. This story as a moral behind it.

http://http//www.sikhiwiki.org/index.php/Bhai_Lalo

Response to Ameena's blog

I totally agree with what you have said about it is much more harder when someone is lying to you. Its always hard to forget what the other person might be feeling. Its a pretty sensitive topic! But good post!

http://http://miny-1.blogspot.com/

Masturbation

Masturbation is quite an awkward topic to talk about for me. It is one of those topics which at times can be embarrassing to talk about. In my opinion some things just need to be kept quiet. However in a subject like being bad this is not the case.

Masturbation can be used by a person to control their sexual lust and desires, if they have no other means. It is unlikely if a person masturbates whilst in a sexual relationship as there is probably no room for it. If they do then it has its role. For example trying to improve sex life.

Masturbation helps an individual to get to know their own body and what they like and do not like. There is nothing wrong with it however its just one of those topics which is not spoken about. It is not a bad thing at it helps people to control their lust. It is better that somebody control's theirs lust through masturbation rather then then do something wrong such as rape.

http://http//www.ismasturbationbad.com/main.htm


This is link which looks at different topics surround masturbation. It contains a huge amount of information on this topic.

Cross Dressing.....

Cross dressing is mostly associated with homosexual and there main aim generally is trying to attract the same sex as themselves. I am not sure what people achieve out of cross dressing as its hard to understand their mindset. It could possibly be men wanting to be a women or vice versa. They are neither male or female which then leads into the topic of intersex. Is this possibly a third gender. Cross dressing is hard to comprehend and it confuses me as I'm not sure what women and men are trying to be.

Cross dressing is quite often shown in the media, recent case which has made the news is Alex Reid. Also Big Brother has also had many cross dressers on it. The link attached is an article from The Sun newspaper and shows how cross dressing makes the news. However in cases like this it is possible that it could be publicity stunts.

http://http//www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/showbiz/tv/2669769/Jordans-fella-Alex-Reid-is-a-cross-dresser.html

I myself do not agree with it and cannot quite understand why people do it. People should be happy and comfortable with how they were born and not try to be something they are not.

Infidelity

Infidelity is wrong - most people would agree with that statement if they had any emotions right? or does everyone has their reasons?
It is not hard to cheat, lust and tempting but its the ones you are cheating on that get hurt.At certain times and circumstances infidelity does happen. For example in a dead end marriage, loneliness . Some people cheat because of the excitement of it ,however it doesn't make it right.In my personal opinion I think infidelity is cruel and a horrible thing to do. I believe in Karma so what goes around comes around. Today it is more common for women to cheat then men.

In religion it also states how one must not commit adultery as that it was of the ten commandments.

The link posted is more information on this topic.

http://http//www.armchairadvice.co.uk/relationships/saving/common/infidelity.asp

Sex Before Marriage

Sex before marriage is common in today's generation more so then ever. Today it is not the taboo it used to be within certain societies. Sexual desire is a natural instinct and it is not easy to always ignore it. However in some cases people may indulge is sexual pleasure without accepting the responsibilities. For example have their fun and then move to the next. There is nothing wrong with having sex outside marriage as a relationship can grow stronger. However sex with numerous people can also be dangerous as there are chances of sexual diseases. So people just have to be responsible for their own actions. I understand that everyone has different circumstances hence why they may not be able to save themselves till marriage. Sometimes it is difficult as lust and temptation takes over.

It is thought in many Asian to cultures that a girl should not consent to sex before marriage. It is seen to be disrespectful to both herself and her family if she loses her virginity outside of marriage.

The link attached to this site is about Chasity rings, these rings have been bought out in America so that girls will stay virgins until their wedding night. Apparently it is the new in thing in America so I wonder how long it will be until the crazes hits England!http://http//abcnews.go.com/GMA/story?id=127706&page=1

Is it right to ban!

In my previous blogs I have spoken about alcohol, smoking and certain types of drugs. In regards to my last post I spoke about the legal drug mephedrone and the controversies behind this particular drug. It can be argued that huge amount of alcohol consumption causes many health implications too. Not only does it effect your health but your mental state. It is the same with smoking as it effects your health and is very addictive.

Surely it can be argued that cigarettes and alcohol should be banned aswell. Does it not make it as bad as the drug mephedrine? This is something I do not quite understand. All of the above can kill ,be addictive, have severe health implications and have psychological effects. So what makes one more dangerous then the other?

Even though a final decision has not been made yet it will be interesting to see what happens.